That is the title of a really helpful post on Stephen Barrow’s site. He offers a useful 6 step program for deciding what you need, believing in it, and following by with actions. Though he offers the instance of a profitable enterprise, this is applicable to all elements of life.
The publish has a very good quote from James Allen. Mr. Allen was a British thinker and, amongst different issues, the creator of a pleasant little guide As a Man Thinketh, first printed in 1903, however nonetheless related immediately (it applies to each genders). It’s nonetheless in print, and lots of libraries ought to have it. You may even get the Amazon kindle model for 9 cents.